We all know that age is just a number and love is blind. Then why is it that age-gap relationships have always been a controversial and hot topic which attracts unnecessary attention? Don’t know why the age-gap relationships become the talk of the town whether it’s a celebrity, a friend, a common man or a relative who is in love with someone who is more than a couple of years elder to them.
Nobody is able to guess the reason, let us just settle down with the fact that love is blind and beyond everything. Love just loves it is not bound to any terms and conditions. There is no particular set of rules. Nor it comes with any rule book. But at the end of the day, we all are part of the society which doesn’t fail to point fingers at those who break such stereotypes and fall in love despite the age gap.
If you’re someone who is in such a relationship, get ready for some of the most annoying questions.You definitely cannot get away with the jokes but you certainly can stand up to your choice, the love of your life. Let’s look at some of the most common questions which will be bombarded at you.
Married for Money??
This one is going to hurt for sure no matter whosoever is asking it. If it is your close friends and relatives, you can probably discuss it with them and make them understand. However, usually, such questions will never come from the tongue of those who love you and care for you. This kind of statement generally comes from those who feel they are entitled to comment on everyone’s relationships and love life.
Boring Sex Life
A lot of people will be concerned about your sexual life and needs. They may even inappropriately bombard you with a ridiculous assumption about you and your partner’s sexual skills. You can politely ask them to maintain limits and draw the line because what happens inside the bedroom is something that is not their business in any way, and they shouldn’t be concerned about it.
Incompatible Emotional Quotient (EQ)
Since there is an age gap definitely there will be different emotional needs.Try to fulfill each other’s emotional requirement. Do not enter into an argument with your partner unless you are sure about it. Do you know why? Because there are plenty of people who want to light a spark and fuel it till it turns into a fire.
No Room For Kids
There also would be a very concerned group of people who will pop in this question because they think that they very well know about your internal system and are sure that your biological clock is abnormal. You always can have the conversation about kids with your partner so that you can plan your family and avoid unwanted surprise.
Every Relationship Problem Is Due The Age Gap
Other couples will be given the benefit of the doubt and any problems they face will be due to unexpected circumstances but if you’re in a relationship with an age gap that doesn’t apply to you.
Written By: Chahat Ani
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